ConeXsions Assessment Instructions You are about to complete a survey that will measure your views around some key components that contribute a healthy relationship. This is not a standardized psychological test but it is a survey designed by an experienced counseling professional. Usually your first thought is more correct than overthinking each question. Answer the following questions as honestly as you can so that your views can be accurately compared those of another person of interest. There is no time limit but it would be recommended that you complete the questionnaire in one sitting and without help from anyone else. Good luck in discovering who may be more compatible with you. I remain calm when experiencing stressNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I think clearly when I am under stressNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I thrive in challenging situationsNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I am comfortable with last minute changesNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I perform at my best when under pressureNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I enjoy my lifeNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I am an optimistic personNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I am hopeful about my futureNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I wake up looking forward to my dayNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I am content and generally at peaceNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I don't back down, especially when I am rightTrueNeither true nor falseFalse I often interrupt others when they are speaking because I know what they are trying to sayTrueNeither true nor falseFalse I like to be in control because I generally know betterTrueNeither true nor falseFalse I need to be firm and direct with stupid peopleTrueNeither true nor falseFalse I often know the right answer and need to express itTrueNeither true nor falseFalse I see the best in peopleNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I care about how other people feelNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I respect that other people may have better ideas than myselfNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways It upsets me if I hurt the feelings of othersNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I always know how others feelNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways You can only save money when you earn more than you spendTrueNeither true nor falseFalse Credit card debt is often necessaryTrueNeither true nor falseFalse Talking about money in a relationship is vital to happinessTrueNeither true nor falseFalse The appearance of success is important to becoming successfulTrueNeither true nor falseFalse Buying new things often makes me happyTrueNeither true nor falseFalse Satisfying my partner during intimacy is more import than my own needsNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways Sex is a very import part of a healthy relationshipNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I can speak openly about my sexual needs with my partnerNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I will engage in intimacy if my partner wants to even if I am not interestedNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I am sexually confident in a relationshipNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I find it easy to share my thoughts and feelingsNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways It's important to discuss what your partner is feelingNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways Identifying what I am feeling is importantNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways Emotional connection between two people is vital for a relationshipNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I am always aware of what my partner is feelingNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways Regular communication is vital to a relationshipTrueNeither true nor falseFalse I always listen carefully to what my partner is trying to sayTrueNeither true nor falseFalse Problems and issues cannot be left for another dayTrueNeither true nor falseFalse A daily "check-in" is important for a healthy relationshipTrueNeither true nor falseFalse Most relationships can work if you put in the effortTrueNeither true nor falseFalse A relationship works better if both people have the same hobbiesYesMaybeNo It's okay to have different interests and hobbies to your partnerYesMaybeNo I am an outdoors type of personYesMaybeNo I prefer online gaming when I have spare timeYesMaybeNo You must have hobbies and interests to have a fulfilling lifeYesMaybeNo Connecting with my spiritual side is important to meNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I believe religion is important in a relationshipNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways Following the same religion is important for a relationship to workNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways I believe being spiritual is more important than organized religionNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways Neither religion or spirituality is important in a good relationship, it's about your emotional connectionNeverSometimesAbout half the timeMost of the timeAlways Time is Up! 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